Couples Counseling

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Couples counseling, also called couples therapy, is a type of psychotherapy. Couples counseling helps couples of all types recognize and resolve conflicts and improve their relationships. Through Couples counseling, you can make thoughtful decisions about rebuilding and strengthening your relationship or going your separate ways.

Couples counseling is often short term. Couples counseling typically includes both partners, but sometimes one partner chooses to work with a therapist alone. The specific treatment plan depends on the situation. Couples counseling can help couples in all types of intimate relationships — regardless of sexual orientation or Couples status.

Some couples seek Couples counseling to strengthen their partnership and gain a better understanding of each other. Couples counseling can also help couples who plan to get married. Premarital counseling can help couples achieve a deeper understanding of each other and iron out differences before Couples.

In other cases, couples seek Couples counseling to improve a troubled relationship. You can use Couples counseling to help with many specific issues, including:
• Communication problems
• Sexual difficulties
• Conflicts about child rearing or blended families
• Substance abuse
• Anger
• Infidelity

Couples counseling might also be helpful in cases of domestic abuse. If violence has escalated to the point that you’re afraid, however, counseling alone isn’t adequate. Contact the police or a local shelter or crisis center for emergency support.

Couples counseling typically brings couples or partners together for joint therapy sessions. Working with a therapist, you’ll learn skills to solidify your relationship, such as:
• Open communication
• Problem-solving
• How to discuss differences rationally

You’ll talk about the good and bad parts of your relationship as you pinpoint and better understand the sources of your conflicts. Together you’ll learn how to identify problems without blame and instead examine how things can be improved.

Here are some things to keep in mind when considering Couples counseling:
• It might be hard to talk about your problems with the counselor. Sessions might pass in silence as you and your partner remain angry over perceived wrongs — or you might yell or argue during sessions. Both are OK. Your therapist can act as a referee and help you cope with the resulting emotions.
• You can go by yourself. If your partner refuses to attend Couples counseling sessions, you can still attend. It’s more challenging to mend a relationship this way, but you can benefit by learning more about your reactions and behavior.
• Therapy is often short term. Some people need only a few sessions of Couples counseling, while others need it for several months. The specific treatment plan will depend on your situation. Sometimes, Couples counseling helps couples discover that their differences truly are irreconcilable and that it’s best to end the relationship. Sessions can then focus on skills for ending the relationship on good terms.
• You might have homework. Your counselor might suggest communication exercises at home to help you practice what you’ve learned during your session. For example, talking face-to-face to with your partner for a few minutes every day about non-stressful things — without any interruptions from TVs, phones or children.
• You or your partner might need additional care. If one of you is coping with mental illness, substance abuse or other issues, your therapist might work with other health care providers to provide more complete treatment.
Making the decision to go to Couples counseling can be tough. If you have a troubled relationship, however, seeking help is more effective than ignoring your problems or hoping they get better on their own. Sometimes taking the first step by admitting the relationship needs help is the hardest part. Most individuals find the experience to be insightful and empowering.

Credit: https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/marriage-counseling/about/pac-20385249?p=1

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